Julie Lythcott-Haims针对其前恋人Olivia Haas发表的文章作出回应，承认十三年前与其学生身份的Haas发生了一段不适当的关系，并对此表示公开道歉。

📢Julie Lythcott-Haims承认与学生的关系：她表示，与Haas的关系发生在十三年前，尽管她当时并非直接掌管Haas的学业成绩或学术地位，但与学生的恋情本身就是不适当的。【详细】

📚音乐合作演变为情感关系：Julie和Haas最初是通过写作和录制音乐开始合作的，随着时间的推移，两人表达了对彼此的爱意，但Julie承认这应该止步于此，不应进一步发展。【详细】

🔚关系结束与辞职：一年后，这段关系结束，Julie也辞去了自己的职位，她开始反思错误，并努力修复可能修复的地方。【详细】

🙇‍♀️公开道歉：Julie曾私下向Haas道歉，现在她公开道歉，并对自己的行为及其对Haas、前同事、学生以及家庭成员的影响表示歉意。【详细】

👪家庭支持：Julie感谢她的伴侣和成年子女的支持，以及在这一过程中所展现的宽容和恩典。【详细】

Julie Lythcott-Haims issued a statement yesterday in response to an essay by her former lover. See related story.

“Recently, Olivia Haas published a piece describing her relationship with her college dean. I was that dean.

“Ms. Haas’ memories and feelings about her experience in a relationship with me are valid. We’d been writing and recording music together and got to a point where we expressed love for each other. That is where it should have ended. I should not have taken it further. While I was not in a position of authority over her grades or academic status at the university, being in a relationship with a student was inappropriate when it happened thirteen years ago, and it would be inappropriate now.

“A year after the relationship started, it ended. I resigned from my position. I focused on learning from my mistakes and doing the work necessary to repair where repair was possible.

“I apologized privately to Ms. Haas years ago. Now I want to publicly apologize to her for my actions and their impact on her. I also apologize to my former colleagues and students who had the right to expect better of me. And to members of my extended family for whom the public airing of this matter may be difficult.

“I am grateful for the support of my amazing partner and our adult children, and for the grace that has been shown to me along the way.”