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Calling Bullshit - the Cheatsheet
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本文基于《驳斥胡说八道》一书,探讨了有效驳斥谬论的方法。作者强调,驳斥应避免引发更多争议,而是通过提问、承认不确定性、寻找共同点等方式,促进理性讨论。文章还提到了警惕“自以为是者”的陷阱,以及驳斥的核心在于提升他人认知,而非自我炫耀。总而言之,文章旨在提供一套实用的策略,帮助读者在日常交流中更有效地应对和化解谬论。

🤔 **避免直接反驳,提问是关键**:当听到“我不相信气候变化是人为造成的”时,直接反驳往往适得其反。正确的做法是提问,引导对方解释其观点,避免陷入无意义的争论。

🤝 **承认不确定性,建立良好关系**:在观点不明确时,承认自己的不确定性,更容易获得他人的理解和支持。这种方式比在辩论中“击败”对方更能建立良好关系。

🤝 **寻找共同点,化解意识形态冲突**:当对方的观点与个人身份或政治意识形态紧密相关时,尝试寻找共同点。例如,当家人对疫苗安全性表示担忧时,可以先认同监测药物不良反应的重要性,从而建立共识。

⚠️ **警惕“自以为是者”**:避免成为“自以为是者”,这种人往往为了炫耀自己的知识而发表不相干的评论。驳斥的核心在于帮助他人变得更聪明,而不是为了让自己显得更聪明。

Published on April 12, 2025 11:43 AM GMT

In the last chapters of the book Calling Bullshit, the authors Carl T. Bergstrom and Jevin D. West outline how they think bullshit and general nonsense should be refuted effectively. I found this part of the book to be quite novel and I have since been trying to implement their advice. However, I found that it is difficult to go from "reading about how to call bullshit" to actually "calling bullshit" well in practice. In order to memorize their workflow, I made a flowchart out of it:

 

I recommend to check out the book to get more background info on the reasons why the authors believe that this constitutes a good strategy for refuting bullshit. 

Is it worth trying to debunk it?

When I hear someone drop stuff like "I just cannot believe climate change is man-made", I have an instinct to reply "Why?". This is, according to Calling Bullshit, the worst type of refutation because it invites bullshit rather than refuting it. In such cases, I end up saying nothing because it just is not worth the effort.

Are you correct?

When I hear someone express Euroskepticism ("The people of Britain are better off without the EU"), I repress the urge to argue in favor of the EU. Although there are many reasons to believe that the union is beneficial for its members, individual cases often differ significantly from the general case, and I just do not know enough about these individual cases (such as Britain) to conclude with certainty that the EU will be beneficial for those people. If I am not very certain that I can make a compelling case for my view, I try to provide my viewpoint modestly.  Benjamin Franklin is said to have argued that acknowledging the own uncertainty buys more goodwill from your fellows than  "destroying" them in an argument.

Is the bullshit related to personal identity or political ideology?

Take extra care when bullshit is deeply related to personal identity or political ideology. "Finding common ground first" is often surprisingly easy. When someone in my family expresses their concern that Covid-19 vaccines are causing harm to the population, I can respond by: "I also think that it is very important to seriously monitor the adverse health effects of all drugs, in the case of [...]". Voilà! Suddenly we are on the same team. Most people do not want to hurt and you should play to your moral alignments. 

Check "well-actually"

The authors of the book "Calling Bullshit" introduce the "well-actually-guy" in their book, a concept that has since found its way into my thinking. The "well-actually guy" is someone whose comment has the main goal to make that person sound smart. I have been the well-actually-guy on multiple occasions: 

"Well actually, Krabat isn't a novel as it has originated as a folklore at least 350 years ago". 

This was a purely tangential point to make on the novel "Krabat", designed to showcase my familiarity with the work and its context. The book makes the point concisely: "Calling bullshit" is about making those around you smarter, it is not about making you smarter.

 


 

 

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