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The skills every adult human should have (with Raffi Grinberg)
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Raffi Grinberg是一位商业领袖、作家和教育家,他与Jonathan Haidt共同创立了The Constructive Dialogue Institute。访谈中,他探讨了成年人常常缺失的生活技能,以及造成这种缺失的原因。他强调了建设性分歧的重要性,并讨论了在哪些情况下分歧难以克服。他还分享了如何安抚自己或他人的“大象”,以及人们在约会方面常犯的错误。此外,他还涉及了财务技能、投资方式、职业发展和人生规划等话题。访谈内容丰富,旨在帮助人们更好地适应成年生活。

🤔 **成年人缺失的生活技能:** 许多人在成年之前未能学会重要的生活技能,例如建设性地处理分歧、有效地进行约会、掌握基本的财务知识和投资技巧,以及找到适合自己的职业发展方向。

🐘 **安抚“大象”:** Grinberg提到了如何安抚自己或他人的“大象”,这里的“大象”指的是情绪化的部分。理解并管理情绪是有效沟通和解决冲突的关键。

💰 **财务技能与投资:** 许多成年人缺乏基本的财务技能,访谈中提到了最佳的投资方式,帮助人们更好地管理自己的财务状况。

🤝 **建设性分歧:** 访谈强调了建设性分歧的重要性,并讨论了在某些情况下分歧可能难以克服的原因。学习如何进行健康的谈判和沟通,有助于解决冲突和建立良好的人际关系。

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What life skills do most people fail to learn before adulthood? Why does this failure occur? What should constructive disagreement look like? When might it be impossible to overcome a disagreement? How can you appease your (or someone else's) "elephant"? What do many people get wrong about dating? How much exploration is necessary to figure out what kind of person is compatible with you romantically? Which basic financial skills do many adults lack? What are the best ways to invest? What is your personal "superpower"? Should schools strive to make kids well-rounded (as opposed to highly specialized)? How can you find job opportunities more effectively? How can you figure out what to do with your life? What stages of development do adults go through? What does healthy negotation look like? How much time should you spend consuming information versus processing it? How can you benefit from rejection? Whom should you be trying to impress?

Raffi Grinberg is a business leader, author, and educator based in Washington, D.C. He is the Executive Director of Dialog and cofounder of The Constructive Dialogue Institute (with Jonathan Haidt), both multimillion-dollar education organizations that bring people together for conversations. He graduated with honors from Princeton University and previously worked in management consulting at Bain & Company. He is the author of a mathematics textbook published by Princeton University Press. He also created and taught the popular Adulting 101 course at Boston College. Learn more about him at his website, raffigrinberg.com.

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